Project Hope and Compassion

Karen Parker story

 

 

Karen Parker – I am married to Glen, I have 5 children.

I live in the community of Lizana in the State of Mississippi. Before the storm I was a business owner. My business being Lacrosse LTD. a Wholesale food service, sold local restaurants and to the public, a volunteer at St. Ann Catholic Church in Lizana.  As of May 2006 I became employed at Our Lady of Fatima Catholic Church in Biloxi.  I am still a volunteer at St. Ann and on site coordinator for PHC.

Project Hope and Compassion is a hurricane relief ministry of St. Ann parish.  We have 200 families registered in our Parish.

 August 29, 2005.Hurricane Katrina.

The worst natural disaster in the history of our country. 

The size of Great Britain, 300 miles wide as it came off the Gulf of Mexico.

In Mississippi it destroyed 80,000 homes and further damaged 200,000 not including Businesses.

268 Mississippians lost their lives.  Many still missing.

40,000 are still in Fema trailers 19 months after the storm.

 

 

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Our Pastor, Fr. Pete Mockler, was in Ireland for his Mothers 80th birthday celebration. His return flight was scheduled in advance for Sept. 20.

Fr. Antoine Lynch, a retired Priest in our Diocese is scheduled to do the Masses for St. Ann while Fr. Pete Is in Ireland.

 During the week before the storm, he called and left a message on the recorder that his nephew was in a very serious accident and would be going to his family.  He asked that I make calls to locate another priest for the weekend masses.  He wished me luck and said he would not be calling again.

 I called other churches, it was suggested that I call the Retirement Community of The Society of the Divine Word in Bay St. Louis. They did have a Priest, Fr. Brendon Murphy. I offered him the use of the house and the promise of a good meal.   

 On Sunday August 28th I was the only member of our parish working to prepare the Church for the Storm, It was important to remove the small object inside so they would not be picked up by the wind and break the windows of the church.  Fr. Murphy was in the office and wanted to show me a new layout for our Bulletin.  With so much to be done outside I was in and out of the office on this project as well.  I kept insisting that he either plan to stay and ride out the storm in the rectory or go to Bay St. Louis soon.  This was repeated several times.  I could tell by the strength of the wind at 5 pm on Sunday that this was going to be a serious storm.  It was very scary.  He insisted that he would go. 

 After Fr. Murphy drove away, I went to the garage moved Fr. Pete’s car closer to the wall so I could make room for my car. 

 As I was getting out of my car Fr. Murphy came back shaking the rectory keys in the air saying        he was passing the Mission Church and discovered he had the keys in his pocket and felt he needed to return, it was an omen.

I was very relieved.  I pulled my car out asked that he put his in.  He said it was okay for me to leave mine in.  No, my husband would rather have me go home.

He wanted me to go back to the office he had something else to show me on the bulletin.  As we were walking into the office the phone was ringing,  Fr. Carignan SSJ of St. Theresa of Lisieux Parish, in Gulfport wanted to speak to Fr. Pete. I told him he was in Ireland.  He had hope to come to St. Ann he also mentioned that He’d talked Fr. Endslow SSJ of Our Mother of Mercy Parish, Pass Christian, MS. to come with him. I mention that another fellow was here and was sure he would know him, and It would be okay with Fr. Pete. They talked, it was decided they would come.  I asked about cooking a meal, Fr. Murphy told me not to worry they would be stopping on their way at Popeye for Chicken.  On their arrival, I had the beds made gave instructions. Set out a few bottle of wine and whiskey told them to stay in the house, the gas grill was in the garage and not to leave before I came back it may be one day or two but promised I’d be back.

 I did call Fr. Pete in Ireland and told him they would be staying in his house, he was very happy about the news.

 It took two days because of the debris before I was able to return.

 Fr. Endslow lost his home, all he had was the things he brought with him to St. Ann, his house was the wood frame house that had washed up on the railroad track pictured in most national newspapers. He is still living in a fema trailer.

 Fr. Murphy, was the only priest in the community of Bay St. Louis that had a car.  They had 8 feet of water in the Retirement community, all the cars went underwater.

Fr. Murphy agreed to stay a few extra days to keep an eye on the church.  I checked on him every day. I did get all the freezers dumped at the church before the food could thaw.  One day I came and he was gone, he left a note about needed more medication is possible he would return, he took the key with him. 

On Saturday, September 3rd, while Glen, Ivy my youngest daughter & I were working at the Church.  At approximately 9 am, Fr. Lynch drives up and is in tears, over the amount of damage and the lost of his library & home, he told me he had a friend that he felt the need to check on but was concerned about fuel.  Promised to do the Masses at St. Ann if I would promise him 10 gallons of gas so he could return to Jackson, Sunday after the 9 am Mass. 

Yes can do! Ivy and I took my little red car which had ¼ tank of gas and located as many gas cans we could, with $66. in my pocket, took to the road.  We headed east on 1-10 to Mobile. I forgot to take an ice chest with water, or pack food, not a good thing to do. The traffic was backed up at the Hwy 57 exit in Jackson County, 

 I decided we would go north and work our way on the back roads to Alabama.  I was desperate.

 We kept driving and became concerned about our own fuel and trust there was nothing except country.  I tried my cell phone and actually got a signal.  I called my son’s number and he actually answered, I was so relieved to know he was okay, he was equally as happy.  He was in Little Rock Arkansas with a friend from school.  I asked that he check a map to give us some idea what might be ahead.  He was pretty upset with my decision to seek fuel.  He had problems getting fuel on his travels north.  He explained that the hwy I was on would run out at Hwy 26 it went east and west.  Ivy and I just kept driving and we were beginning to lose it when there it was. Hwy 26, and to the right was a Chevron Gas Station totally in tact, with at least 30 cars lined up.  We had no choice but to get in it.  The line did not move for at least 2 hours, the owner of the station went car to car and explained that a tanker truck was on the way, and we would be rationed, we went through the line twice, it was limited to $30. cost of fuel, $2.49 a gallon.  We got Fr. Lynch his 10 gallons put a little in the car. Plus a little extra and went west on 26 to Wiggin, South on Hwy 49 it was after the 9 pm curfew and we were stopped.  Explain our promise of gas for the priest, and given the go ahead and a scolding.  When we reached St. Ann Ivy and I woke Fr. Lynch up, told him we had fuel, he was excited and said to me many times since, Karen Delivers!  I told him that Glen would put it in his car in the morning after Mass.

 Eight people showed up Glen, Ivy and I, included in that number, but Fr. Lynch preached like the church was full.  He told us, the St. Paul’s, Pass Christian, gone! St. Thomas, Long Beach, gone! St. Clare, Waveland, gone! Along with several Catholic Schools. He also mentioned that all the Churches in the Diocese received Damage. That the Diocese of Biloxi Owned One policy for all the Churches, it’s value 35 Million the damage was over 100Million. And St. Ann, you have structure, if you think you will get any of that insurance money you’re kidding yourselves, I suggest you get help to put your church back together.

 Monday, September 6th, my brother Richard, lives in Texas he made a trip with two of his friends brought three pickup truck loads of supplies which we distributed among our neighbors, including fuel.  He picked up Ivy and my parents from their home in Biloxi went straight back Texas, Ivy went to school for a month and my parents stayed because of health issues for seven months.

 On Tuesday, September 7th the electricity was up at the Church.

I turned on the water in every building and washed down all the coolers and freezers and cleaned the rectory. 

 Went home for the night, while we were dealing with the heat in our home, Glen blurted out, we are crazy living in these conditions when we could move our camper to the church and hook up. 

 On, Wednesday, September 8th, Glen removed the debris from around the trailer, hooked it up to old gray and headed to St. Ann; it took him three hours to move the trailer three miles.

 Fr. Pete had just moved into the rectory at St. Ann in January.  While the rectory was being built he lived eight months in our camper, a sight was ready with power and water.

 That evening we cleared the area around the office near the pond, I had already decided that I would not be leaving the property on Thursday.  I had to clean the gold fish pond so I could turn on the pumps.

 Because, Glen had remove the debris in the driveway of the Church, very early Thursday, the dumpster company came on the property and empted the dumpsters, (they were pretty smelly by this time.)

 I was alone at the Church and in the Goldfish pond when a man (Later I found out his name, George) came around a large pile of tree limbs & metal from Fazzio’s across the Hwy. “Hello, I didn’t think anyone was here.” He apologized for startling me,”we have a truck load of supplies we would like to give out to help your neighbors is it okay for us to use your parking lot.” Help my neighbors?

I was concerned for at least 2 seconds about liabilities, and remembered what Fr. Lynch had said; I really believe we did not have money. YES!  He responded with a thank you, went about his business. I continued to work in the pond.  A long time had passed; I was so caught up in my pitiful world, thinking it was going to take me years to clean up if I had to do it myself.  Then suddenly I felt myself lifted out of the pond, my feet never touching the ground and up to the front gate I went.  At the top of my lungs I asked, “HEY! ARE ANY OF YOU FOLKS CATHOLIC” three men answered, yes we are they (Dave Booth, Mike Baxter & George Farkas from Michigan ) came to the gate, where I was standing. I felt the need to remind them, “All the members of my parish have damage or losses of their own and are not able to help me clean up this little church, and our dioceses will not have the money to help fix St. Ann You know this is your Church, being catholic, universal, you understand that?   Will you please adopt us and help us clean up?” they were silent, and I asked them to walk with me.   

 God only knows what it was I was going to show them or tell them.  We stopped at the gate between the office and the back entrance of the Church. I pointed to the Parish Hall. “See that building over there?”

 “No one in the county of Harrison or the Diocese of Biloxi knows we have that building, it has electricity, the air condition works, it has a commercial kitchen, freezer & refrigerator, stove, the water is good, I know because I

opened all the faucets and let the water run for a good ½ hour. I do not know the purpose of my telling you all this, but I said it. You can stay here and help us clean up? “Dave did respond after a brief moment, “Well we already have a place to stay, the place we are staying at does not have electricity or running water. When we get back, we will tell our leader about you and your offer.”  I went back to the pond and finished my work.

 Because I was a small business owner, and due to Katrina we no longer had an income. My husband & I own two house trailers, our children resided in them at one time, and both were vacant prier to the storm.  We had all the paint and other supplies bought and ready to make the repairs long before Katrina, just no time to work on them.

 On Friday, September 9th being the day after I made my appeal, we went to work to make the necessary repairs on one of the house trailers, and so we could rent for income when the power was restored. While hard at work, my cell phone rang; it was Joey Lind, a member of St. Ann.  Prier to the storm he and I had worked together on the more recent projects around the Church. I had not heard from him until he made this call. In his words, “Ms Karen, there are some men here that would like to speak to the lady that was here yesterday, from what they have told me I know you are that lady. Whatever it is you are doing right now you need to stop doing and come to the Church.”  “I can’t believe this, my phone has not worked since the storm, and this call is the first one that has gotten through.”

 Steve Hulst, is the founder of Project Hope & Compassion. He made his first trip with his son Nathan to Mississippi four days after Katrina they came with Nathans boat to help with search & rescue, only to be turned away in Jackson.

He really believed he had failed. On his travel back to Michigan he got on the phone and started making calls. Thirty years before he and his wife Jacque had been part of an international youth missionary organization, and several of those persons that they had worked with were still in the organization bases in Texas. Some were associated with disaster relief work; he wanted to know if they were doing any work in Mississippi, he found out that they were working with the pastor of a small community church in Texas. (A former minister of a church in Gulfport) whose congregation was collecting and delivering truck loads of relief supplies to the greater Gulfport area.  He contacted the minister, Rev. Dwight Lawson, the two worked together to bring relief supplies and work parties to help as many victims as they could.

 When he arrived in Michigan he was given permission by his pastor to speak at all of the Masses (St. Bartholomew’s, Newaygo, MI)He asking for anyone interested in learning about and supporting a relief effort to the victims of Hurricane Katrina to met him after Mass.

 On Monday Morning (Labor Day) one week after the storm they were loading medical, food and water supplies, his brother Jim and Deacon Richard Pitt from Holy redeemer Parish in Jenison, MI, join in the efforts, More donations, volunteers located they got on the road and headed to Gulfport, leaving MI, Tuesday September, 6 2005.

 Steve’s daughter Cynthia, living in Orlando, was contacted and asked to met him in Gulfport, with her camera to document the destruction and the needs of the people in Mississippi.  They arrive Wednesday morning in Gulfport.  They met Steve Ewing, the head of an organization called “Compassion Alliance,” at their large distribution site in the parking lot of the biggest mall in Gulfport. They were unloading 40-50 trucks at that site everyday. At this time Steve and the others were still looking for a site of there own.  That night they joined there Texas friends in the homes of locals.

 Thursday, September 8, 2005. The supply group had decided to meet at the Hancock Bank parking lot on the corner of Hwy 49 & Hwy 53 to distribute the relief supplies.  Unknown to them the site had begun reconstruction and was not available. The truck driver from Texas just drove, no one knew where he was going, they followed, he drove 9 miles on Hwy 53, passing several churches and other location that would have be adequate for distribution, he wheeled into the driveway of my little church in Lizana, Thank God. Dave Booth spotted the volunteer fire department, with no luck at finding anyone there, he made his way back to St. Ann only to find the supply trucks completely surrounded by passing vehicles, and the folks from Michigan & Texas busy handing out food, water and the other supplies, It took 3-4 hours, the large load of supplies was completely gone.

 It took Dave, Mike & George several tried to convince Steve to come out to St. Ann to speak with me. He did come, we prayed, we trusted, we accept, we are open to the Spirit.

 Steve was committed to this ministry by giving up his job in the beginning to devote full attention to the details, organizing to establish PHC to make what it is.  He is still involved, he continues to update a newsletter every 6 months to keep former & future volunteers informed.

 Fr. Pete was told of the activities the day before he was due to leave Ireland; he said “We’ll see.” When he arrived home on Sept 20th, 2005, the church property was full of activity. Men & Women are on the roofs of all the buildings, folks working on the property picking up debris and some going out into the community to help our neighbors.  Distribution Center was in full swing, 7 days a week, (We canceled our religious education program 06-07.  Our Distribution Center served more than 12,000 people.  It was closed March 06.

 I explained to Fr. Pete, that several attempts were made to contact the Diocese of Biloxi. I left messages on a few phones to give a report of the activities. No response and I was not going to delay any repairs.

Fr. Pete said and I quote, “It is better to sometimes ask for forgiveness than it is to ask for permission.”

 One of my dearest friends from my youth Penny Goodman (we are kindred spirits), I had not been able to contact her for ten days after the storm her husband is a Deacon at St. Mary’s on the Hill, Augusta Georgia. I had just programmed their home number into my phone less than a week before Katrina. Cell phones as mentioned worked at random, well I got a signal and called, she answered on the first ring and was in tears, “Oh, Karen I have been so worried about you, I had given your name to the Red Cross as missing because you are the only person in Mississippi I had not heard from, are you okay?  What can Brian & I do to help you!”  I responded, “You want to help me?” YES! Well I need help with my little church in Lizana, I told her what Fr. Lynch had said about the insurance, that volunteers were staying in the Parish Hall.  Within three days Deacon Brian, Charlie Mays, an engineer and the pilot managed get permission to land at the local airport.  Steve & I picked them up, brought them to the camp showed them around and talked with them about the needs of the community, the Church and volunteers.  They went home put a crew together and returned with material and built the outdoor showers that we are using.  St. Mary’s group has been back a number of times. And last July their group also redid the ceiling tiles in the church added the light fixtures. 

 St. Mary’s on the Hill, like many other Catholic Parishes, Christian Reform, Reform Christian, Methodist, Baptist, Non-religious have been supportive of “Project Hope and Compassion, “ a hurricane relief ministry that was started because of Katrina,

 There are so many stories that should be documented. Every Volunteer can tell you a story about his or her experience, working in Mississippi, The friendships that have been made, the interfaith communities that have bonded, so much good from such a disaster.  We are getting better, because the Spirit of Christ is at work in so many, thank God.

 Fr. Pete is the Director of Project Hope & Compassion & Pastor of St. Ann

Terri Moore is a parish member – Volunteer Reservations

Richard Dunlap is a parish member – PHC Bookkeeper

 Project Hope & Compassion a Ministry of St. Ann Catholic Church, Lizana, Mississippi, receives no grants, no Catholic Charities, no Diocesan Support, solely supported by donations

 So much destruction, the work is endless.

 Over 6000 volunteers have come to St.Ann to help with clean-up, distribution, reconstruction, community service, many groups have repeated. We’ve had few long term volunteers. Steve Hulst  Founder Full Time Sept. 05 – January 06./ Rex & Shirley Foss, Zealand MI Oct 05 – May 06 - / Mike Casey  Newaygo MI Nov 05 – Dec 06. /Bill Horn Has been here from St. Simon’s Island, GA about 16-17 times/ Jo Anderson Naperville IL & James O’Hollearn Iowa - June & July 06/ Victor Said, Local Cook for Volunteers, Sept 05 – Nov. 06/ Barry Wright, British Columba Dec 06-April 07 / Tom Cook, May 22 – August 1, 2007

Dave Booth has been at least 5 times – Dave was Glen’s side kick at all four Fish Fry (Fundraisers for PHC) in Michigan - Aug 06.

George Farkas has been here 2 times – He and His wife Pat, did Funnel Cakes at the 5th Catfish Festival. Coordinated – Fish Fry in Newaygo Aug 06

Mike Baxter, has come 3 times, 2 with his sons.

Paul Zimmerman, has come three times with groups from Aquinas College, Grand Rapids MI., and is our Web Master. 

Thank you, 

Karen Parker

On-site Coordinator

 

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We appreciate your willingness to help our mission. We will contact you as soon as possible.

Mission:  To bring immediate, compassionate Christian relief and hope directly to the victims of hurricane Katrina, primarily in the Gulfport, Mississippi region.

Who we are:  A non-denominational group of concerned Christians and supporters throughout the United States who share the mission and goals of the Project.   

A Brief History of the Beginnings of Project Hope & Compassion and of Camp Hope in Lizana, Mississippi By Steve Hulst

Director:                           Fr. Peter Mockler, c/o St. Ann's Catholic Church,
 23529 Highway 53 Lizana, Gulfport, MS 39503;
  Phone: 228.832.2560; Email: stanncatholic@bellsouth.net

 

Local Coordinator:             Karen Parker, c/o St. Ann's Catholic Church, 23529 Highway 53 Lizana, Gulfport, MS 39503;  Phone: 228.860.1533 (Church office: 228.832.2560); Email: akaren@bellsouth.net

 

 

Volunteer Scheduling:       Mike Casey, c/o St. Ann's Catholic Church, 23529 Highway 53 Lizana, Gulfport, MS 39503; Phone: 228.861.8129, Cell Phone Number 228.861.8129, (Church office: 228.832.2560);
Email: projecthopeandcompassion@hotmail.com

 

Founder:                          Steve Hulst, 6960 Walnut Ave, Newaygo, MI 49337, 231.557.9455, stevehulst@charter.net

 

 

Advisory Board:                Mr. Steve Hulst (MI), Mr. David Booth (MI),  Ms. Karen Parker (MS), Mr. Scott Hall (TX), Deacon Brian Goodman (GA), Mr. Charles A. May (GA), Fr. Peter Mockler (pastor of St. Ann’s, MS)

 

Current headquarters:
c/o St. Ann's Catholic Church
23529 Highway 53
Lizana, Gulfport, MS 39503 

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